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| The Right Frame of Mind When Bigger is Better
(AgapePress) - I first learned of America's largest family last December, from an article in USA Today. According to the story, Vladimir and Zynaida Chernenko were celebrating the birth of their seventeenth child, David, who was born December 7, 2005. Yes, that's right. The Chernenko's have 17 biological children and are a very happy family! Immigrants fleeing religious persecution in the Ukraine, Vladimir and Zynaida moved their family to America six years ago. Their 24-year marriage has produced Sergey (22), Lilia (21), Andrey (19), Dmitry (18), Anatoly (17), Lyudmila (16), Anna (15), Vitaly (13), Oksana (12), Svetiana (10), Inna (9), Vyacheslav (8), Paul (6), Diana (5), Alina (4), Timothy (2), and David (8 weeks). Interestingly, about the same time I read about the Chernenko family, I also discovered an old book on a bookshelf in an antique store, written by the late Dr. John R. Rice, an influential Christian evangelist as well as founder, former editor, and publisher of the Sword of the Lord newspaper. The book's copyright was 1946 and titled, The Home: Courtship, Marriage, and Children. I quickly purchased the volume from the antique dealer because inside its pages was a chapter about birth control that was nothing less than powerful and most pertinent to our time. Keep in mind, however, Rice's remarks in the book were made long before birth-control devices or information were widely disseminated. Rice noted at the first of the chapter:
Rice went on to say that at the writing of his book every State in the Union, except two, prohibited the general dissemination of information about birth control. Only a nation that has now completely embraced contraception would baulk at a couple having more than two or three children, and be absolutely horrified at the thought of having 17 like the Chernenkos. Yet this is the current situation in America. In his book, Rice rightly contended the argument for contraception largely came from anti-Christian sources. He writes:
Rice then argues contraception is generally wrong because all life comes from God. He cites a pamphlet, once written by Dr. B.H. Shadduck, titled, Stopping the Stork, where Shadduck suggests facetiously that if people want to limit the size of their families, they should wait until their child is two years old and then decide whether to kill the child. "There would be very little limiting of families, you may be sure, on that basis," said Rice. "Nearly every child is its own proof that it had a right to be born. The love and joy and pride that come from a child proves that God was giving an infinite blessing when the child was given, and that it would have been a foolish sin committed against their own happiness for the father and mother to have prevented the conception of that little one which later turns out to be so precious," he notes. The Chernenkos would certainly agree with that statement. The USA Today story reports Vladimir saying, "I sincerely believe in God, and I believe my children are a gift from God." In fact, Rice argued that bigger families are better than smaller ones. "Every reason for one child is a reason for other children," he said. "If one child brings happiness, more children bring more happiness. All parents of large families bear testimony to this. Nearly every argument against large families is a theoretical argument. When applied to a particular case, it does not stand up. There may be some theoretical argument for not having another baby, but when the baby comes, actually God provides for the tenth one as well as the first one, and the tenth one is loved as much as the first one, and adds as much to the happiness of the home. Within the limits God has set in nature, more children, mean more provision from God, more happiness." Furthermore, contended Rice, generally speaking "children reared one or two to a family are selfish and undisciplined." "Children out of big families have more sense of responsibility," he said. "The mother who has a half dozen children is almost compelled to have some of them dry the dishes, some of them sweep the floor, some of them look after the baby," wrote Rice. Zynaida Chernenko says that's the way it is in her family. USA Today reports her to have said that her older children help with the cooking and cleaning, as well as child-care duties. It has to be that way. "The children share duties and responsibilities, with the older ones filling in," she said. According to 17-year-old Anatoly, "The siblings do not squabble about portion sizes, TV channels or other matters because their Dad has driven home the importance of putting aside selfishness in order to survive as a family." Such children are obviously getting a form of character education the schools could never provide. Rice noted:
Lastly, Rice contended that socialistic influences in government were, in part, precipitated by a contraceptive mentality. When contraception is embraced by a culture, there is a shift from an emphasis on family to an emphasis on government. In other words, Social Security takes the place of children caring for their parents in old age, which is a biblical command (I Tim. 5:4). Government welfare programs and not the support of strong, caring family-units become the substitute for help during difficult times. I do not mean to contend every family ought to have as many children as the Chernenkos. There are some exceptions, when non-abortifacient contraceptives or natural family planning might be warranted. It is my purpose, however, to convey how far we've fallen. The prevailing practice of contraception today, which has throughout history grown out of the most-wicked of sources, is in no way consistent with Christian history, teaching, or practice. It has resulted in a culture of death that treats children like a disease, undermined the family and our national character, and in part, helped produce the welfare state. It has caused us to consider families like the Chernenkos as something freakish, rather than something glorious! Christians definitely need to revaluate many of their current beliefs and attitudes regarding contraception, especially in light of the need to reclaim our nation for Christ. In that spirit, I submit one final quote from Rice's book:
Indeed. When it comes to family, Dr. John R. Rice advocated the Christian position and the Chernenkos demonstrate it -- bigger is better.
Rev. Mark H. Creech (calact@aol.com) is the executive director of the Christian Action League of North Carolina, Inc. To read more on contraception by Rev. Creech, read: "Abortion: Striking at the Root of the Problem." © 2006 AgapePress all rights reserved.
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